by Mario Currado, Copyright June 23, 2008, all rights reserved. 541 views
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| From 2006-11-17 Devil's Punchbowl |
“Do you have any valuables, breakables, squishables, sharp things or explosives in your pockets?” I ask the 9 year old boy standing in front of me as I help him step into the leg loops of a climbing harness.
“Uhhmm,” he replies slowly, searching for an answer as he watches a lizard effortlessly run up the rock in front him. Being out in the wild is a totally new experience for this boy. Getting geared up to climb the first cliff he has ever actually seen in person is sensory overload in and of itself.
Now his instructor is drilling him with a bizarre array of questions. How is he supposed to answer when he can barely hear his own thoughts above the wind whooshing through the pine trees?
“You know,” I explain, “Stuff like diamond earrings or pearl necklaces that will fall out and get lost when you go upside down.”
He stares at me and blinks twice, dumbfounded. Upside down?! He clenches his clammy palms into fists then stretches his fingers tensely, wishing they were as agile as lizard claws. I wrap the harness belt around the waist of his baggy jeans.
“Or stuff like coins and papery green cash that will roll down into stone cracks or fly away with the mountain breeze.” His eyebrows rise with sudden comprehension, and he digs into his pocket, handing a wad of money to his best friend with threatening orders to keep it safe.
“Any I pods, cell phones or other fancy gizmos?”
Out comes the techie stuff. I continue with my interrogation.
“Poison toads or soft chocolate bars?”
“Rattlesnake heads or throwing stars?”
“Snap Caps? Shotgun shells?”
“Stinky bombs with dirty smells?”
Pockets emptied, I cinch the harness straps tight and tie the boy into a top rope belay. He stares at the rope, and I can tell it looks like a measly fishing line to him. “This is all that holds me?” he asks doubtfully.
I then reiterate the equipment talk, explaining how the rope could hold an entire class of students, and how a person can fall farther out of their bed than they can on a belay like this. I explain that I am professionally trained and how the other instructors and I have belayed thousands of kids without a single incident.
Despite my reassurance, however, the boy’s doubts are growing. I give him some chalk to dry his sweaty, shaky hands.
Even after being assured of the facts, however, most students are not fully trusting of the equipment, their instructor, or even their own two feet. They are generally quite apprehensive, if not trembling with anxiety. But with patient, nurturing encouragement and achievable goals, they build trusting confidence and begin to master the basic skills needed to enjoy the excitement of scaling stone.
Dealing with stress
This process of petrification, familiarization and adaptation is what is known as exposure therapy. Exposure therapy - turning fear into fun - is a big part of climbing instruction. It is not uncommon to have students who are terrified to tears of heights. They come to climb for the sole purpose of overcoming their fear.
I start the fearful off in their comfort zone: standing on the ground. From there, they learn to trust the belay system before they ever start climbing. I have them lean back into their harness, putting their weight onto the rope above them. With their toes against the base of the cliff, I give them slack until they are sitting on the ground. We go through this until they are comfortable with it. Then I have them take one step up the rock face. We go through the lowering exercise again, and they learn to trust their feet on the slippery stone. Step by step, they climb and lower, until they are able to comfortably enjoy climbing the whole route and also enjoy lowering back down. This could take as little as a few minutes, or it could take days. The important thing is to keep things positive. This is the difference between adaptive stress and destructive stress.
Carefully controlled challenges free kids up to overcome problems and accomplish goals with excellence. These mountaintop experiences encourage them to enjoy life to the fullest, and hopefully teach them valuable lessons about trust, determination and victory that will carry over into eternity.
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees.” Hebrews 12:11-12
1 • Ralph • September 10, 2008 • 10:02 AM
Let’s go!
2 • Mandy M. • September 21, 2008 • 7:50 PM
Kelli, I’m assuming you wrote this? Just wanted you to know, at this point in my life, this is very encouraging to me. Thanks for sharing. It’s amazing how God can worth through a simple blog post.
3 • Johannah Stanford • September 24, 2008 • 3:00 PM
The quality of this video looked good to me, and it didn’t take hardly any time to download on our computer. Did you get more climbing equipment? ![]()
4 • Kristen • October 04, 2008 • 3:39 PM
Sounds like tons of fun.
Ryan took me rock climbing indoors for the first time a couple weeks ago and I loved it! (I’m his sister.)
Colorado looks and sounds like a very fun place.
5 • Mandy M. • October 04, 2008 • 5:49 PM
Great post Heidi! You sure are brave. I’m glad you had such a great time!
6 • Nate • October 13, 2008 • 5:23 PM
Thats awesome….
Sounds like something I would do. :p
7 • Heidi Reiman • October 20, 2008 • 4:47 PM
Hans, You poor thing. I’m sorry you couldn’t get a wi-fi connection. By the way what is a wi-fi?
Is it like wiffer cookies with fine milk?
8 • Kelli • October 29, 2008 • 8:03 AM
Oh sheesh, Nathaniel, you’re hilerious! That was really roughing it.
9 • Nathan Nasby • November 04, 2008 • 11:28 AM
If you want a really creepy expirience stay at the Imperial Hotel in London! Wow, we had blood on the walls and in the sheets in our room. The Window was broken, and I’m not even going to mention the shared bathrooms!!!!
10 • Anna • November 05, 2008 • 8:01 PM
Haha! Nathan, this is just the beginning… Soon you’ll be cool with using towels unwashed from the last occupant, sleeping on bedbug-ridden mattresses, and, well, haha!
11 • Heidi R. • November 17, 2008 • 10:00 AM
Great story.
12 • A • November 17, 2008 • 7:01 PM
I just watched this a few days ago (was looking up vids of Marrakesh and then followed the rabbit trail) and thought about you guys… Odd, but fitting, to see it here as well!
13 • Kristin C. • November 17, 2008 • 10:13 PM
Haha!!! That is hilarious!!! :-D
14 • Debbie • November 25, 2008 • 10:27 PM
I have a problem with getting cave crickets in my basement and hate them. I don’t think I want to be their friend. But neat story on your adventure. God Bless!
Debbie
15 • Laura • November 29, 2008 • 12:49 AM
Wow! :D
16 • Estin • November 30, 2008 • 8:58 PM
That’s crazy.
17 • Trish • December 04, 2008 • 12:11 PM
Um…Ew. That is SOOO disgusting.
18 • Kristen B. • December 07, 2008 • 6:52 PM
You are a great writer, Kelli.
19 • Heidi R. • December 09, 2008 • 11:45 PM
Thanks, so are you.
20 • Heidi R. • December 09, 2008 • 11:46 PM
Oh, and I love your pics.
21 • Quentin Cooper • December 18, 2008 • 7:58 AM
This seems to have been written by people who have caved only once in their life or read about it in an armchair. What about the main thing warm clothes (be it a wetsuit or neo-fleece). Gloves completely unimportant as I have caved without them for 20 years and never wished I’d brought them. What about a survey of the cave? Going with someone experienced? Leaving a CALL OUT? that not feature in your essentials? Incase people ahave an accident in a cave then nobody knows about it….come on guys….
22 • Blue (Royal) • May 06, 2009 • 11:07 PM
Nice film guys. The water side looked like fun. I love a good natural water slide. Good job with not making it look to rigged.
23 • Royal Magnell • May 06, 2009 • 11:57 PM
That was fun… now we run so the cops don’t catch us!
24 • Rachel • May 19, 2009 • 9:36 PM
Hey! Hoping you get this soon. Just wondered what kind of camera, flash, etc. was used for these pictures. Also how the cameras were kept dry and clay free. Thanks so much!
25 • Beau • August 04, 2009 • 12:16 AM
Enjoyed it. I am curious if this is the Wilder cave in Pelham, AL?
26 • Dannity Kane • February 27, 2010 • 2:06 AM
Give me a little of that and I’d feel like a king.
27 • Stephen Nasby • May 28, 2010 • 9:09 AM
Good job. ![]()
28 • Stephen Nasby • September 02, 2010 • 9:58 AM
That looked like quite an adventure, exciting. Swim looked very refreshing. Cool camera, you can even go underwater with it.
29 • Katie Carter • September 18, 2010 • 10:11 PM
It is in Grady County Georgia, between Pelham, and Cairo. It is owned my my aunt. It is very pretty, it is not open to the public because people can’t seem appreciate it without breaking pieces off, and spray painting.